中国绅士

再版序言　17 Second EditionPreface

*章　绅士仪表　19 How Should aGentleman Look?

一　良好的个人卫生习惯　21 Good Hygiene

个人清洁　22Personal Cleanliness

气味　24Smell

二　绅士仪容　25 GentlemenAppearance

毛发　25Hair

唇部　31Lips

手与指甲　31Hands and Nails

皮肤　32 Ski n

身体　32Body

香水　32Perfume

三　绅士体态　33 Gentlemen Posture

站姿　33Stand

坐姿　34Sit

行姿　 34Walk

四　上电视　 35 To Appear on TV

化妆　 35Makeup

服装　 36Clothing

五　绅士服饰　 36 Gentlemen Fashion

穿衣规则　 36Dress Rule

日常服饰　 37Everyday wear

鸡尾酒会服　59Cocktails

正规服装　59 Formal Clothing

特殊场合　61Special Occasions

出差时携带什么服饰　61Travel Wardrobe

男人要戴饰品吗 　62 Do Men Wear Jewelry?

绅士的其他配件　64Other Accessories

绅士的小嗜好　67Some Habits of Gentlemen

关于你的个人风格　69A Word about Your Personal Style

第二章　商务绅士　73 Business Gentleman

一　走向世界的中国商务人士　74 Chinese Businessmenin the World

语言　76Language

礼品　76Gift

二　绅士怎样请客　77 GentlemenEntertaining

选择邀请的客人　78Choosing Guests

语言问题　79Be Sensitive to the Language Problem

食物　79Food

席间对话　79Conversation at the Table

酒和饮品　79Prepare Good Wines and Drinks

座位的安排　80Seating Arrangements

请客的环境　80Entertaining Environment

三　出国旅行　81 Going abroad forbusiness trip

准备行李　82 Preparing Luggage

坐飞机　83By Air

坐火车　84By Train

入住酒店　84At the Hotel

四　商务礼仪　87 Business Etiquette

善于言辞的谈吐　87Being Articulate

寒暄的作用　87How to Say Hello

你的肢体语言　88Your Body Language

五　仪柬　93 Etiquette Cards andLetters

名片　94Business Card

邀请　95Invitation

使用传真的规矩　98Etiquette for Fax

用电子邮件的礼貌　98Etiquette for E-mail

信件的规矩　99Etiquette for Letters

六　办公室电话礼仪　101 Etiquette forUsing Office Telephone

接听电话　101 Picking up Telephone

秘书应有的电话礼仪　103 Telephone Etiquette for aSecretary

做好电话留言　103Telephone Message

留意时差　104Note the Time Difference

不要煲“电话粥”　104Don’t Occupy Telephone for Long

七　相处之道　105 Relations

与工作伙伴相处　105 Dealing with Colleagues

老板与雇员的关系　107 Boss and Employee

与专业人士相处　111Dealing with Professionals

介绍　112Introduction

第三章　绅士就餐礼仪　115 How Does aGentleman Eat?

一　西餐的文化背景　117 Differences inMeal Culture between the East and the West

二　在西餐厅　120 In a WesternRestaurant

自助餐　120 Buffet

鸡尾酒会　121Cocktail Party

晚宴　122Dinner

三　餐桌的布置　123 Setting up Table

餐具的摆设　123Arrangement of Utensils

餐具的使用　125How to Use Utensils

四　西餐餐桌礼仪　128 Meal Etiquette

用餐礼貌　128Eating Etiquette

上菜顺序　130Order of Courses

进餐厅和就座顺序　130Where to Sit at the Dining Table

取菜规则　131Serving Food

何时开始吃　132When to Begin Eating

何时该结束　132 When to End Eating

与侍者和调酒师的交流　132Communicating with Waiter and Wine-steward

五　餐桌上的特别情况　134 Special Situations

感恩祷告　134Say Grace

当不好吃的食物或异物入口时　134If you Don’t Like the Food or Something Not Eatable

如何解决口中异味　134How to Remove Smell from the Mouth

泼洒汤汁时　135How to Deal with Spilling

你在节食时　136When You Are on a Diet

咳嗽、擤鼻子时　136Coughing and Blowing Nose

六　做一个精通的美食家　136 Becoming aGourmand

怎样吃面包　137How to Eat Bread

怎样喝汤　137How to Eat Soup

怎样吃鱼、贝类、蜗牛食品　137How to Eat Fish,Shell,Snail

怎样吃肉　139 How to Eat Meat

怎样吃鸡　140How to Eat Chicken

怎样吃沙拉　140 How to Eat Salad

怎样吃意大利面　141How to Eat Italian Pasta

怎样吃甜品　141How to Eat Dessert

怎样吃水果　142How to Eat Fruit

西式快餐和小食　142Fast Food and Snack

七　茶和咖啡　143 Tea and Coffee

喝茶　144Drinking Tea

喝咖啡　145Drinking Coffee

八　酒的艺术　146 Art of Wine

选酒　148Selecting Wine

品酒　149Tasting Wine

敬酒　150Toasting

餐后饮　150After-dinner Drinks

第四章　日常礼仪　153 Gentleman in DailyLife

一　日常礼貌　156 Daily LifeEtiquette

在公共交通工具上　157On Public Transportation

在商场和超市　159In a Shop and a Supermarket

洗手间的礼貌　160Bathroom Etiquette

怎样做一个文明的行人　161 How to be a Polite Pedestrian

二　开车的绅士　162 Courteous Driving

在交叉路口　162At Intersections

夜间行驶时　162Driving at Night

高速公路上　162 Driving on the Highway

不乱鸣喇叭　162Don’t Honk Unnecessarily

不乱扔垃圾　163Don’t Throw Rubbish out of Windows

停车　163Parking

在停车场　163At Parking Garage

三　电话交流　163 Phone Conversation

有笑容的声音　164The “Sound” of a Smile

家中电话礼仪　164Telephone Etiquette at Home

四　听音乐会或上剧院　165 At a Concert orTheater

提前或准时到达　165Arrive Ahead or on Time

在表演过程中　165During a Performance

听古典音乐会或歌剧　166At a Classical Music Concert or Western Opera

手机　167Mobile Phone

你要提早离开怎么办　167How to Leave Early

音乐会的着装　167Dress Code of Concert

五　与人相处　167 How to Get Alongwith Others

与服务员相处　168Getting Along with Those Who Serve You

与销售人员相处　168 Getting Along with Sales Associates

与陌生人相处　169Getting Along with Strangers

六　绅士的财富观念　171 Rich Dad,Poor Dad

七　做主人的礼貌　174 Etiquette as aHost

八　做客的礼貌　176 Etiquette as aGuest

九　*与收礼的礼貌　178 Etiquette for GiftGiving and Receiving

送外国人哪些礼物合适　178What Gifts Are Suitable for Foreigners

办公室礼品　179Office Gifts

当面打开礼物是西方的习惯　180Open Gifts Immediately

送花　181Sending Flowers

包装　182Gift Wrap

回礼　182Returning Gifts

十　常见的不良举止　183 InappropriateBehavior

不当使用手机　183Improper Use of Mobile Phone

吸烟　184Smoking Cigarettes and Cigars

随便吐痰　185Spitting

随手扔垃圾　186Littering

当众嚼口香糖　186Chewing Gum

当众挖鼻孔或掏耳朵　187Picking Your Nose or Ears

当众搔头皮　187Scratching Your Head in Public

在公共场合抖腿　187Shaking Your Legs

当众打哈欠　188Yawning out Loud

频频看表　188Looking at Watch Frequently

第五章　绅士淑女　 189 Ladies andGentlemen

一　做一个有风度的绅士　191 Becoming aGentleman

二　约会　192 Dating

一个好约会的构成　193What Makes a Good Date

约会的规则　193Rules of Date

约会时的行为　195Behavior during Dates

三　丈夫与妻子　199 Husband and Wife

怎样处理婚姻中的矛盾　201How to Argue

分居与离婚　201Separation and Divorce

四　在办公室如何处理与女同事的关系　204 How to Deal withFemale Colleagues

如何与心仪的女士相处　204 How to Deal with a Charming Lady

如何避免牵扯到性骚扰　206 How to Avoid Sexual Harassment

五　性与绅士　206 Sex Etiquette forthe Gentleman

附录 　 Addenda

羽西开列：中国绅士魅力难挡的十大特征　208 Yue-Sai’S List of 10 Killer Traitsthat Make a Chinese Gentleman lrresistible