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Part I:聽Rules for You Rule聽1.聽Keep It Under Your Hat
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1 Token Rule聽2.聽You鈥檒l Get Older But Not Necessarily Wiser
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1 Token Rule聽3.聽Accept What Is Done Is Done
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1 Token Rule聽4.聽Accept Yourself
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1 Token Rule聽5.聽Know What Counts and What Doesn鈥檛
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1 Token Rule聽6.聽Dedicate Your Life to Something
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1 Token Rule聽7.聽Be Flexible in Your Thinking
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1 Token Rule聽8.聽Take an Interest in the Outside World
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1 Token Rule聽9.聽Be on the Side of the Angels, Not the Beasts
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1 Token Rule聽10.聽Only Dead Fish Swim with the Stream
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1 Token Rule聽11.聽Be the Last to Raise Your Voice
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1 Token Rule聽12.聽Be Your Own Adviser
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1 Token Rule聽13.聽No Fear, No Surprise, No Hesitation, No Doubt No Fear
No Surprise
No Hesitation
No Doubt
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1 Token Rule聽14.聽I Wish I鈥檇 Done That鈥攁nd I Will
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1 Token Rule聽15.聽It鈥檚 OK to Give Up
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1 Token Rule聽16.聽Count to Ten鈥攐r Recite 鈥淏aa Baa Black Sheep鈥?
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1 Token Rule聽17.聽Change What You Can Change; Let Go of the Rest
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1 Token Rule聽18.聽Aim to Be the Very Best at Everything You Do鈥擭ot Second Best
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1 Token Rule聽19.聽Don鈥檛 Expect to Be Perfect
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1 Token Rule聽20.聽Don鈥檛 Be Afraid to Dream
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1 Token Rule聽21.聽If You鈥檙e Going to Jump Off a Bridge, Make Sure You Know How Deep the Water Is
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1 Token Rule聽22.聽Don鈥檛 Dwell on the Past
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1 Token Rule聽23.聽Don鈥檛 Live in the Future
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1 Token Rule聽24.聽Get On with Life鈥擨t鈥檚 Whooshing Past
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1 Token Rule聽25.聽Be Consistent
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1 Token Rule聽26.聽Dress Like Today Is Important
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1 Token Rule聽27.聽Have a Belief System
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1 Token Rule聽28.聽Leave a Little Space for Yourself Each Day
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1 Token Rule聽29.聽Have a Plan
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1 Token Rule聽30.聽Have a Sense of Humor
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1 Token Rule聽31.聽Choose How You Make Your Bed
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1 Token Rule聽32.聽Life Can Be a Bit Like Advertising
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1 Token Rule聽33.聽Get Used to Stepping Outside Your Comfort Zone
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1 Token Rule聽34.聽Learn to Ask Questions
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1 Token Rule聽35.聽Have Dignity
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1 Token Rule聽36.聽It鈥檚 OK to Feel Big Emotions
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1 Token Rule聽37.聽Keep the Faith
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1 Token Rule聽38.聽You鈥檒l Never Understand Everything
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1 Token Rule聽39.聽Know Where True Happiness Comes From
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1 Token Rule聽40.聽Life Is a Pizza
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1 Token Rule聽41.聽Know When to Let Go鈥擶hen to Walk Away
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1 Token Rule聽42.聽Retaliation Leads to Escalation
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1 Token Rule聽43.聽Look After Yourself
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1 Token Rule聽44.聽Maintain Good Manners in All Things
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1 Token Rule聽45.聽Prune Your Stuff Frequently
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1 Token Rule聽46.聽Remember to Touch Base
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1 Token Rule聽47.聽Draw the Lines Around Yourself
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1 Token Rule聽48.聽Shop for Quality, Not Price
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1 Token Rule聽49.聽It鈥檚 OK to Worry, or to Know How Not To
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1 Token Rule聽50.聽Stay Young
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1 Token Rule聽51.聽Throwing Money at a Problem Doesn鈥檛 Always Work
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1 Token Rule聽52.聽Think for Yourself
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1 Token Rule聽53.聽You Are Not in Charge
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1 Token Rule聽54.聽Have Something in Your Life That Takes You Out of Yourself
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1 Token Rule聽55.聽Only the Good Feel Guilty
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1 Token Rule聽56.聽If You Can鈥檛 Say Anything Nice, Don鈥檛 Say Anything at All
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1 Token Rule聽57.聽Accept the Differences, Embrace What You Have in Common
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1 Token Rule聽58.聽Allow Your Partner the Space to Be Themselves
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1 Token Rule聽59.聽Be Nice
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1 Token Rule聽60.聽You Want to Do What?
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1 Token Rule聽61.聽Be the First to Say Sorry
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1 Token Rule聽62.聽Go That Extra Step in Trying to Please Them
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1 Token Rule聽63.聽Always Have Someone鈥攐r Something鈥擳hat Is Pleased to See You
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1 Token Rule聽64.聽Know When to Listen and When to Act
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1 Token Rule聽65.聽Have a Passion for Your Life Together
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1 Token Rule聽66.聽Make Sure Your Love Making is Making Love
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1 Token Rule聽67.聽Keep Talking
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1 Token Rule聽68.聽Respect Privacy
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1 Token Rule聽69.聽Check You Both Have the Same Shared Goals
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1 Token Rule聽70.聽Treat Your Partner Better Than Your Best Friend
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1 Token Rule聽71.聽Contentment Is a High Aim
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1 Token Rule聽72.聽You Don鈥檛 Both Have to Have the Same Rules
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1 Token Rule聽73.聽If You Are Going to Be a Friend, Be a Good Friend
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1 Token Rule聽74.聽Never Be Too Busy for Loved Ones
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1 Token Rule聽75.聽Let Your Kids Mess Up for Themselves鈥擳hey Don鈥檛 Need Any Help from You
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1 Token Rule聽76.聽Have a Little Respect and Forgiveness for Your Parents
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1 Token Rule聽77.聽Give Your Kids a Break
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1 Token Rule聽78.聽Never Lend Money Unless You Are Prepared to Write It Off
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1 Token Rule聽79.聽Keep Quiet
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1 Token Rule聽80.聽There Are No Bad Children
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1 Token Rule聽81.聽Be Up Around People You Love
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1 Token Rule聽82.聽Give Your Kids Responsibilities
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1 Token Rule聽83.聽Your Children Need to Fall Out with You to Leave Home
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1 Token Rule聽84.聽Your Kids Will Have Friends You Don鈥檛 Like
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1 Token Rule聽85.聽Your Role as a Child
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1 Token Rule聽86.聽Your Role as a Parent
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1 Token Rule聽87.聽We鈥檙e All Closer Than You Think
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1 Token Rule聽88.聽It Doesn鈥檛 Hurt to Forgive
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1 Token Rule聽89.聽It Doesn鈥檛 Hurt to Be Helpful
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1 Token Rule聽90.聽What鈥檚 in It for Them?
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1 Token Rule聽91.聽Hang Out with Positive People
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1 Token Rule聽92.聽Be Generous with Your Time and Information
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1 Token Rule聽93.聽Get Involved
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1 Token Rule聽94.聽Keep the Moral High Ground
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1 Token Rule聽95.聽Just Because You Have, Doesn鈥檛 Mean They Have, Too
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1 Token Rule聽96.聽Do Compare Yourself with Other People
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1 Token Rule聽97.聽Have a Plan for Your Career
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1 Token Rule聽98.聽Look at the Long-Term Ramifications of What You Do for a Living
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1 Token Rule聽99.聽Be Good at Your Job
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1 Token Rule聽100.聽Be Aware of the Damage You Are Doing
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1 Token Rule聽101.聽Be for the Glory, Not the Degradation
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1 Token Rule聽102.聽Be Part of the Solution, Not the Problem
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1 Token Rule聽103.聽Check What History Would Say About You
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1 Token Rule聽104.聽Not Everything Can Be Green
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1 Token Rule聽105.聽Put Something Back
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1 Token Rule聽106.聽Find a New Rule Every Day鈥攐r Occasionally at Least